What every flower really says - the language of flowers honestly explained
In Victorian England, people would have entire conversations about flowers. Today, hardly anyone knows their meaning – but we still subconsciously sense it.
The language of flowers (floristry also calls it floriography) has a centuries-long history. In the Ottoman Empire, in France, and especially in Victorian England, it was a sophisticated means of communication. Every flower, every color, even the way it was presented had a meaning.
Much of this is forgotten today. But some rules still apply – and those who know them give more thoughtfully and avoid embarrassing mistakes.
Roses - the language of colors
No flower has as many meanings as the rose . The color makes all the difference:
- Red roses – passionate love. The most classic message in the world of flowers. A single red rose says more than a whole bouquet of mixed flowers.
- Pink roses – affection, gratitude, admiration. Perfect for friendships and mothers.
- White roses – symbolizing purity, fidelity, and innocence. The first choice for weddings, but also common at funerals.
- Yellow roses symbolize friendship and joy. They used to represent jealousy, but this meaning has almost disappeared in German-speaking countries.
- Orange roses – enthusiasm, energy, fascination. A fresh, modern choice.
Tulips
In the Netherlands, tulips are more than just flowers – they are a symbol of national pride. Their meaning: fleeting beauty and springtime happiness. Red tulips represent deep love (less dramatically than roses), yellow ones joy.
In Austria, tulips are the most popular spring flowers. They say: "I'm glad you exist" - without heavy romantic undertones.
Lilies
White lilies symbolize purity and transience. They are an integral part of funeral floristry in Austria. But be careful: white lilies can be jarring at a birthday party, as many people automatically associate them with mourning.
Pink and orange lilies have a more cheerful meaning: admiration, prosperity, creativity.
Other flowers and their meaning
Sunflowers – joy, loyalty, admiration. Always a safe choice.
Carnations - fascination, love for the mother (Mother's Day tradition), loyalty.
Forget-me-not – faithful love, remembrance. The name says it all.
Peonies – happiness, prosperity, romantic love. In China, they are the "Queen of Flowers".
Chrysanthemums - in Austria a flower of mourning, in Japan a symbol of longevity and joy.
Lavender – devotion, stillness, purity. In Provence, a symbol of summer.
Orchids – elegance, luxury, beauty. A sophisticated gift.
Gerbera - joy, lightheartedness. Perfect if you want to cheer someone up.
Flowers that are best not given as a gift
There are a few pitfalls you should be aware of:
Yellow chrysanthemums – in Austria and many other European countries, they are exclusively used as funeral flowers. Never bring them as a cheerful gift.
White lilies – beautiful, but for many people a symbol of mourning. For a birthday, choose pink or orange instead.
Odd number - In Austria, one gives an odd number of flowers (3, 5, 7...). An even number is traditionally considered a funeral custom.
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Flower language in Austria
In Austria, the language of flowers has a few unique aspects. Edelweiss symbolizes bravery and love of homeland – however, it is not available as a cut flower because it is a protected species. Alpine roses (rhododendrons) are a symbol of the mountains and Austrian nature.
When moving into a new apartment, it's traditional to bring a colorful bouquet – sunflowers, gerberas, or mixed wildflowers. For birthdays, roses, tulips, or peonies (when in season) are the most popular choice.
Frequently asked questions about the meaning of flowers
Red roses symbolize passionate, romantic love. A single red rose makes a powerful statement. Three red roses say "I love you." Twelve red roses are the classic declaration of love.
In Austria, white lilies, white roses, chrysanthemums, and carnations are the classic funeral flowers. White and muted tones dominate. Colorful or cheerful flowers like sunflowers or gerberas are avoided at funeral services.
Yes, in Austria yellow flowers no longer have a negative connotation (that used to be different). Yellow roses, sunflowers, or yellow tulips symbolize friendship and joy. Only yellow chrysanthemums should be avoided – they are traditionally associated with cemeteries.
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